Princess Journal

this is my status on my YM! for a couple of days. and I got a lot of reactions from my friends’ list. one conversation I had with a collegue went like this:

my friend (6/25/2007 2:08:33 PM): It don’t have to, just keep them close to you and it won’t
me (6/25/2007 8:43:10 AM):  i don’t understand it
me (6/25/2007 8:43:21 AM): sorry
my friend (6/25/2007 8:44:18 AM): Ok you said why do all good things come to an end and I was just answering that question

me (6/25/2007 8:44:29 AM): ok
me (6/25/2007 8:44:46 AM): its about my status
me (6/25/2007 8:45:11 AM): well all good things really come to an end
me (6/25/2007 8:45:22 AM): that’s the reality of life
me (6/25/2007 8:45:32 AM): nothing’s permanent
my friend (6/25/2007 8:45:52 AM): Why should it? When you can control it
me (6/25/2007 8:46:16 AM): you cannot control life
my friend (6/25/2007 8:46:45 AM): Yes you can if it’s something you really want
my friend (6/25/2007 8:47:42 AM): The only thing you can’t control is death and all other thingsare within your control
me (6/25/2007 8:48:12 AM): you cannot control destiny
me (6/25/2007 8:48:47 AM): even if you really like something but if it is not destined to be yours forever
me (6/25/2007 8:49:04 AM): it will not be yours
my friend (6/25/2007 8:49:10 AM): Maybe you can’t but if you really want your destiny to go the way you want it to be you can control it if you want to
my friend (6/25/2007 8:50:25 AM): I’m sorry to hear you have limitations

me (6/25/2007 8:51:59 AM): even if you did all the things you need to do for a thing to stay in your life, but if destiny don’t permit or allow it to stay, it won’t stay.
my friend (6/25/2007 8:53:16 AM): Then it wasn’t a good thing in the first place and life must go on
me (6/25/2007 8:54:28 AM): yeah I agree that life must go on, and hey! lesson learned, but it doesn’t necessarily mean thatit is not a good thing

me (6/25/2007 8:54:50 AM): Can i ask you something
my friend (6/25/2007 8:55:33 AM): Is this problem back home for you
me (6/25/2007 8:56:05 AM): No, its not
me (6/25/2007 8:56:26 AM): just some thought after hearing a song about it
my friend (6/25/2007 8:58:08 AM): So this is all about a song
me (6/25/2007 8:58:30 AM): yup, just a song…

yeah! good things come to an end, but hey! not just good things, all the things. we just make an emphasize on good things because we are enjoying it that’s why we don’t want to end it. we want to keep it. we want to hold it forever, we don’t want to let it go, we feel bad to let it go. we want to do anything just to make it ours forever. and if we didn’t succed in doing it, pain and hurt is what we found.  

but if bad things come to end, we feel relieve. we want to thank who-ever-it-was for ending it.

things do end, good or bad, but it doesn’t necessarily means that you’re left with nothing. memories are left behind. lessons are learned in those things. you can keep them with you.